tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345401712024-03-13T15:21:55.539-07:00Twilight SpyWhere I will not discuss Stephenie Meyer's books, Robert Pattinson or vampires.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.comBlogger492125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-68916930031054685082011-01-11T09:02:00.000-08:002011-01-11T09:02:33.597-08:00My happy mess<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TSyH2qFlpjI/AAAAAAAAB6o/GqXsvNSrqOQ/s1600/DSC_0033.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TSyH2qFlpjI/AAAAAAAAB6o/GqXsvNSrqOQ/s320/DSC_0033.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>Ten days in already? The minor frenzy continues in my life, despite a blissful trip to a sunny beachfront retreat and another beach trip on the books a couple weeks out. The writing time has been crammed in here and there in a very unsatisfying way. And yet... I seem to have written a pretty decent personal essay. How'd that happen?<br />
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I arrived at my writing group a bit nervous to share the piece that had been cobbled together from old and new writing in a rush the day before. The essay felt chaotic and flittery to me as if I were jumping from subject to subject without ever getting down to business. But they felt it was solid, nearly ready to be sent out into the world.<br />
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I was reminded of the rare occasion during my MFA program when I would hand in a story that had a similar air of chaos about it. The chaos was almost always good for the story. I needed to lose control while creating to get at the truth. And while I'm a fairly easy-going person in all other aspects of my life, the control freak in me often rears her ugly head when I sit down to write.<br />
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Here is where I fall in love with the personal essay. The truth is already there. I don't have to hide it in the dialogue of a twenty-five year old waitress or the longings of a middle-aged executive. The truth is what actually happened (or at least my version of what happened). That frees me up to follow ideas and images and the language itself without worrying about whether it's true to the character I've built from my imagination. Chaos can reign and yet I don't have to worry about losing myself entirely. I am here. I can always come back to me.<br />
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This post is kind of out of control itself. A bit of a mess. But I won't try to correct it. I'm going to ride this out and see where it goes.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-91815391522103668292010-12-23T09:01:00.000-08:002010-12-23T09:01:52.317-08:00A reason to celebrate<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TRN7X2UpCMI/AAAAAAAAB6Y/gQtPSmaTSNw/s1600/TS12-23-10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TRN7X2UpCMI/AAAAAAAAB6Y/gQtPSmaTSNw/s320/TS12-23-10.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>A frenzy has descended on me these last few weeks. I'm not even celebrating X-mas this year, not really, and yet I seem to have caught everyone else's insanity like a bad cold. My poor multi-tasking skills have been put to the test. The results of that test? One big "F." <br />
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I thought a little trip to Powell's would calm my rattled nerves. I love looping around the remainder shelves and the employee pic shelves and seeing what catches my eye. Middle of the week, middle of the day, the place was swarming. In among the bookshelves, the energy felt celebratory instead of crazy-making, at least to me. Then, to my delight, I found myself in a long line that ran down the full length of the "E through O" fiction aisle. I will always celebrate a long line at the bookstore.<br />
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I'm liking my new bedside book tower. <i>Sometimes a Great Notion</i> from my own "been meaning to read" shelf, a collection of essays from the library, Salter's <i>A Sport and a Pastime</i>, Fernando Pessoa's <i>The Book of Disquiet</i>(my Powell's purchases) and Philip Lopate's selection of personal essays that I've been digging through for a while now.<br />
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I can't wait to hang the "closed" sign on my office door, curl up under a blanket with a nice glass of wine and slow everything down to the deliciously slow pace of words on the page.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-9743850909738161062010-12-07T21:32:00.000-08:002010-12-07T21:35:05.732-08:00Ready to roll<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TP8X9700SII/AAAAAAAAB6U/WjprPjV4R_M/s1600/DSC_0052.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TP8X9700SII/AAAAAAAAB6U/WjprPjV4R_M/s320/DSC_0052.JPG" width="212" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Okay, so by "signing on" to the whole life reflection thing I mentioned in my last post, I really meant "fleetingly interested." I've been getting the prompts every day but very quickly I realized that so much reflection felt stifling right now. As I said, this whole year has felt like a pause. There's been plenty of time in there for endless mulling. I'm all mulled out. The inertia has fallen away and the last thing I want to do is dwell on what I've been doing these last twelve months.<br />
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Now that the earth is soft from all the rain, it's time to stretch out on top of the grassy hill and roll, with messy, reckless wonder, until something brings me to a stop.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-79182116362815489162010-12-02T16:06:00.000-08:002010-12-02T16:06:08.577-08:00Reverb 10<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TPgz0atKLpI/AAAAAAAAB6A/iZW3vsxNc-U/s1600/IMG_3540.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TPgz0atKLpI/AAAAAAAAB6A/iZW3vsxNc-U/s320/IMG_3540.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>Okay, for some reason, I've signed on for a month-long series of reflections prompted by the site <a href="http://www.reverb10.com/">Reverb 10</a>. I doubt I'll write every day on their suggested topic, but we'll see what happens. Yesterday's prompt was to sum up the year in one word and reflect on what that word might be at this time in 2011.<br />
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For me, 2010 was one big PAUSE. There was a pause in my writing life where I finished one project but struggled for much of the year towards something new. There was a pause in my professional life, not outwardly, but internally as I wondered about how to keep my massage work interesting and viable long into the future. Pausing is different than being stuck, though. Pausing leaves time to absorb and replenish. Now I feel ready. In 2011 I can push PLAY. <br />
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Today's prompt asks "What do you do each day that doesn’t contribute to your writing — and can you eliminate it?" I blame the sun when it's sunny (gotta get it while you can). I blame the rain when it's rainy (who can work when it's so dark and cold?). I blame my perpetually messy house and my piles of laundry, my slow computer, my random schedule, my sore elbow and tired eyes. All this blame takes time and effort. With so much finger wagging to do, I barely have time to work on my writing. <br />
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So can I stop blaming the outside world for luring me away from my words? I've already started to find a way to get past this. My schedule now goes up on my computer desktop. Writing time gets blocked off like any other kind of work. If it feels uninviting, then so be it. Going to the bank, grocery store and dentist are on the schedule too and I have no choice but to follow through. My schedule says "Work on essay" for this hour, so off I go...Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-37287083112183820602010-11-30T16:17:00.000-08:002010-11-30T16:17:26.774-08:00Belated but not belabored thanks<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TPWNcfmbkwI/AAAAAAAAB58/Wy6qPzzwVHo/s1600/TS11-30-10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="251" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TPWNcfmbkwI/AAAAAAAAB58/Wy6qPzzwVHo/s320/TS11-30-10.JPG" width="320" /> </a></div><ul><li>Thanks to the Italian blood in my family that turns each large gathering into a loud, passionate and loving brawl.</li>
<li>Thanks to the little evil geniuses, princesses and brats (both of the world and of my clan) for not being mine.</li>
<li>Thanks to the elders and the elders' elders for showing us one way and letting us wander off in another.</li>
<li>Thanks to the quiet, rainy home to which I will always return. </li>
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I don't, in general, do well with any activity or language that veers toward the spiritual and in particular, the wide and varied realm of new age beliefs. I don't like the packaging of these rituals, the blurry language and blurry thought. I don't like how it simplifies the world into bullet points or spirit cards or mantras. It in no way enhances my life or deepens my experience of the world. It's just doesn't work for me.<br />
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At this workshop we started every 10 hour day "in circle." As soon as I heard that term, a little cold steel cage went up around all my more vulnerable spots: my brain, my heart. At the end of every day we did a variety of activities to enhance our personal growth. I felt the bitterness snake through my body. But here's the thing – it's really, really hard to stay hardened against a group of people willing to work with this population. It's really, really hard to do this kind of massage work with any kind of judgment distracting you from the person you're with. And so I had to find a way to move through my resistance and get what I could from it without cynicism or hate.<br />
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What finally worked was this: On my last day in the health center where we were visiting and working with the patients, I had the opportunity to work with a woman I'll called May. I don't know May's diagnosis but the first time I worked with her during the Level One training, she was almost entirely non-verbal and very stiff. This time, she exhibited a series of repetitive motions and was very talkative, though she had aphasia so her words were jumbled or non-sensical for the most part. As I tried to enter her world on her terms, I became fascinated by the way she used language. A white sweater she asked me for became a "white water fall" in which she wanted me to hide my hands. Her verbal tics were playful and fun: "choosy, cheesy, chintzy," she said.<br />
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I suddenly realized that it wasn't that I had no interest in enhancing my life or deepening my experience of the world. I simply already had a way of doing this that worked for me: Language and story. In this case it was the unexpected language May shared with me, but it's also this story that I can tell and all the other stories that I'm still working on telling. All the stories out there to hear.<br />
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I will never fully embrace the woo-woo or completely abandon the screw you, but I'm beginning to see a way to balance the two.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-75133863664183028122010-11-04T20:55:00.000-07:002010-11-04T20:55:06.866-07:00Politics sucks but the leaves sure are pretty.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TNN8creD-5I/AAAAAAAAB5o/7Er1sbsfGQQ/s1600/DSC_0081.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TNN8creD-5I/AAAAAAAAB5o/7Er1sbsfGQQ/s320/DSC_0081.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TNN8hRiQvqI/AAAAAAAAB50/SMsgO_yJL-I/s1600/TS10-4-10d.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="299" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TNN8hRiQvqI/AAAAAAAAB50/SMsgO_yJL-I/s320/TS10-4-10d.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>As if nature understood that we needed a balm for our political headaches, we are offered this: one last sip of summer, windows knocked open and the streets alive with the applause of bright leaves. None of this is enough to make me forget the gains of the willfully ignorant and blatantly deceitful in this latest election, but it is a reminder that beauty can be blind to politics and a note of gentleness can ease the pain of change.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-75679666608703615982010-10-27T12:28:00.000-07:002010-10-27T12:28:23.236-07:00Stormwatching<div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;">Abstract oceanviews from a stormy weekend at the Ester Lee Motel in Lincoln City, OR. </div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMh4-0tK2eI/AAAAAAAAB5U/jCvJTm-Sf7Q/s1600/TS10-27-10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMh4-0tK2eI/AAAAAAAAB5U/jCvJTm-Sf7Q/s320/TS10-27-10.JPG" width="252" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMh5DxQPuZI/AAAAAAAAB5k/PjRSuY0S1fA/s1600/TS10-28-10c.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMh5DxQPuZI/AAAAAAAAB5k/PjRSuY0S1fA/s320/TS10-28-10c.JPG" width="212" /></a></div><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMh5CTLTBjI/AAAAAAAAB5g/ugdew4J76po/s1600/TS10-27-10e.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMh5CTLTBjI/AAAAAAAAB5g/ugdew4J76po/s320/TS10-27-10e.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-72818722275048090932010-10-23T09:32:00.000-07:002010-10-23T23:04:10.734-07:00Retreat/Reveal<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMI8Oun4rZI/AAAAAAAAB5Q/GdPPQww5e4s/s1600/IMG_3098.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TMI8Oun4rZI/AAAAAAAAB5Q/GdPPQww5e4s/s320/IMG_3098.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>It must be that time of year again. The gray and gorgeous Oregon coast gets more than it's fair share of posted photos as I long for some salt water rhythms. Another day of work and then I'm off to a mini two day retreat of writing and writing and writing. Honestly, I wasn't sure I'd ever say that again. I wondered if the idea of myself as "DL" or "Dead Lazy" as I was occasionally called by my father, would settle in so thoroughly to my bones that it would be impossible to ever lift them again.<br />
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Laziness is just a subset of fear. Do nothing and never fail. But finally the fail better ethic of my beloved Beckett has set in. I have joined a new critique group and yesterday was awed by the talent on display. Sometimes, it takes this kind of force-fed brilliance to kick my sluggish competitive genes into gear. If my fellow writers can show up with such a delicious, meaty feast then I better get cooking. OK, not cooking. That lame metaphor only makes me panic. "But the only thing I can make is cereal!"<br />
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All I need to do is hole up in a quiet room, ocean before me, and crank out some bright failures.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-15134517108497634782010-10-16T21:58:00.000-07:002010-10-16T21:59:31.827-07:00Hugs all around<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TLp-DZvQ-eI/AAAAAAAAB5M/H_XDH_cMKVg/s1600/TS10-16-10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TLp-DZvQ-eI/AAAAAAAAB5M/H_XDH_cMKVg/s320/TS10-16-10.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>There are dozens of ideas roaming dumbly around my head these days. More than a few of them are about the physical distance we keep from one another and the rare moments when that distance disappears. I've got my own observations on the subject whispering in my ears to become some kind of essay (and by essay I mean scribbles in a notebook pleading to be turned into fiction and not dropped on the page all naked and vulnerable), but for now I simply offer a few articles on the power of a little skin on skin:<br />
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For some scientific backup for my profession as a massage therapist click <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/21/health/research/21regimens.html?_r=2&src=me&ref=general">here</a>.<br />
For a broader article on the power of a pat on the back click <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/23/health/23mind.html">here</a>.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-45404821262134758592010-10-10T19:06:00.000-07:002010-10-10T19:06:21.526-07:00Booty from the land of book nerds<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TLJeiQ8x1LI/AAAAAAAAB4I/4GlVRmN-KkI/s1600/TS10-10-10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TLJeiQ8x1LI/AAAAAAAAB4I/4GlVRmN-KkI/s320/TS10-10-10.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>Every once in a while, I stop and wonder why I'm still so devoted to Portland. My neighborhood is crawling with boys in handlebar mustaches and girls in skinny jeans and big, ugly glasses that sneer at the outdated. I can't walk to the store or the bank without being aggressively smiled at and cajoled by some poor wage slave promoting the ACLU, HRC, or Greenpeace. The traffic is ridiculous for a town this size. The housing costs are still overinflated. Our summer is six weeks long and at night the screams of a thousand drunks filter through my windows.<br />
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BUT THEN...<a href="http://www.wordstockfestival.com/">Wordstock </a>comes around. Every year this festival brings together a dizzying mix of author readings, workshops and panels scattered among rows of vendors hawking books, journals, and other ephemera. Even though the convention center setting makes me feel like I'm in a miserable hybrid of multi-ring circus and strip mall, I never fail to thrill at being surrounded by masses of other book nerds. If nothing else, Portland is a city of readers.<br />
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For me, this isn't just the source of a few cute facts like Portland's libraries being among the busiest in the nation or that Powell's buys 3,000 used books over their counters every day. It means I'm part of a huge, wildly diverse tribe of residents who value the written word. This is no small thing. <br />
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I caught the last bit of Anthony Doerr's question and answer period at Wordstock and he said, more or less, that novels are one of the most essential ways we have of getting into another person's head. The empathy we get from fiction (and nonfiction for that matter) makes us better people. It's nice to know that, even though we may fail to retain the lessons learned from all those pages, we are at least trying.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-41804267400084951912010-10-05T22:51:00.000-07:002010-10-05T22:51:35.998-07:00Lake Quinault: A trip report<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TKv-7TSFNPI/AAAAAAAAB3Q/VC5VojTdEmo/s1600/DSC_0005.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="265" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TKv-7TSFNPI/AAAAAAAAB3Q/VC5VojTdEmo/s400/DSC_0005.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Maybe it's a sign of a deep acceptance of myself as a Pacific Northwesterner that, for my birthday, I chose to take a trip to the Quinault Rain Forest on the Olympic Peninsula. It could also be a sign that I couldn't afford a week in the Caribbean. <br />
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We stayed at the Lake Quinault Lodge which was built in about 3 months for $90,000 in 1926. The property sits directly on the lake and from the grounds there are several easy hikes either along the lake or into the forest that seems to be trying its hardest at every given moment to repossess the land carved out of it by humans.<br />
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An inviting dock pulled promises from us to return in the summer. Of course, we knew that in August the dock would be full of screaming children, all the sweet solitude of it crowded beneath dozens of slapping feet.<br />
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The best place we found for a good thick coating of moss was the Maple Glade trail on the North shore of the lake. Past the field of elk, we stepped into the creepy, quiet and boggy glade. <br />
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There's a partially restored homestead on the trail and it was interesting to imagine a family settling there in what felt like the middle of nowhere in 2010. Is there any way these monstrous, fuzzy trees seemed less frightening at the turn of the century? How many months of cool, gloomy days would it take before you surrendered to the moss?<br />
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I don't know what those homesteaders thought, but all I could think about was how the whole place was simultaneously strange, beautiful and a good place to hide a dead body.<br />
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That is until I looked up at the stencils of teeth-bearing indians and stalking wolves painted onto each of the large pillars.<br />
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Of course, instead of a nuclear winter, I eventually wandered into the black and gray folds of a teenage depression. Accompanied by a persuasive goth and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYpCU13hdi8&feature=related">indie soundtrack</a> I started to believe it was loneliness and/or boredom that was going to kill me and not some angry Russian. My own bitter brain was a far more real enemy than any of the blatant bullies or cold-shouldered whisperers I'd actually encountered.<br />
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By the time I was sunk deep in the disappointments of a poorly chosen and disastrously executed college career, I was pretty sure that I'd not see the ripe old age of 40. In my early twenties, I was so sure of this that I took on the persona of a cranky old lady. It was as if I had to make sure to get in all that unfettered complaining about annoying people and their stupid ideas before it was too late.<br />
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And now, here I am, the day after my 40th birthday. Not only did I make it, but with the help of my beloved city of Portland, a surprisingly appropriate career and a small but brilliant cadre of friends, the bitterness has diminished and what remains of my old lady persona is finally age-appropriate. My beau now joins me as we shake our fists at the drunk fuckwads shouting outside our house at 2am. <i>Get off our lawn! Don't you know people around here are trying to sleep?!</i> <br />
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Oh yeah, that's the stuff. Here's to 40 and long beyond...Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-23365779143640852852010-09-23T11:18:00.000-07:002010-09-23T11:18:00.297-07:00Late bloomers<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TJuR7OYxsJI/AAAAAAAAB3E/zA7tnewTMh0/s1600/TS9-25-10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TJuR7OYxsJI/AAAAAAAAB3E/zA7tnewTMh0/s320/TS9-25-10.JPG" /></a></div>This is the first year I've planted dahlias. I can see how the man I bought my bulbs from got obsessed. His whole property is devoted to this prolific late bloomer. I only got one of mine to mature, but every day there's a new bud unfolding its crazy pink petals. It doesn't care that today is the first day of fall and that the Japanese Maple in the front yard is sending out its red warning signal – Danger! Danger! Winter approaching! The dahlia exists in a state of denial that I can fully embrace: Fuck that chilly breeze. Fuck that sagging dresser drawer loaded down with sweaters. It's summer, dammit...look at me shine!<br />
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My affinity for this late blooming beauty makes sense in another way too. In one week I turn 40 and I'm surprised to find that it feels like cause for celebration rather than despair. I just slipped into a pair of jeans I haven't been able to fit into in several years. The various body aches and pains that plagued me for the same amount of time are gone. The chaos that consumed my psyche in my teens and twenties and the hurdles thrown at me in my thirties have grown smooth and calm. <br />
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At 40 my mother had a 9 and 11-year old and was preparing to take us on a tour of Europe. As V.P. of a candy company my father traveled weekly between Chicago and New York. My life is very different, but I have no complaints. Being on a different schedule than the rest of the garden flowers can be a pretty good thing.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-74283675557418498012010-09-06T11:41:00.000-07:002010-09-06T11:41:28.847-07:00Summer spentMy disappearance from this blog all summer is not necessarily an indicator of a season full of activity, too busy and brimming with heat to bother slumping down in front of the computer to post a thought or too. Our six short weeks of tepid, cloudless balm were sweet but largely uninspired. Nonetheless, here are 6 highlights.<br />
<ol><li>In search of warmer weather we drove south to camp in the Willamette National Forest in a new spot with a frigid but beautiful swimming hole. Standing on a narrow bridge over the Santiam River, we looked into the clear night sky and saw the milky way. No pictures. Forgot my camera.</li>
<li>I took a workshop in massage for the frail elderly. I rubbed lotion into the thin map of skin on the hands of women in a skilled nursing facility, some of them able to offer nothing but a vague grin, some of them responding by returning the favor and rubbing my hands. As I said to the instructor, this work is going to force me to be a better person.</li>
<li>At 30 I bought my beau a gorilla suit, a massive contraption of fur and rubber. This summer, when he turned 40, we went to Men's Warehouse and I bought him a monkey suit. There is something very sexy about a man in a tailored suit holding a guitar.</li>
<li>I coaxed from the earth a towering sungold tomato plant, a plodding zucchini, a handful of strawberries and a single dahlia plant that looks like a pom-pom from Dr. Seuss.</li>
<li>I entertained my entire immediate family for nearly two weeks straight with only the briefest of less-than-generous behavior. Six of us packed into a giant air-conditioned SUV, shunning the flash of hot weather, and drove to the coast, the gorge, the valley. </li>
<li>I sat in the dappled afternoon light of my living room and read The Odyssey and Lia Purpura's magnificent essays, <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/62-9781932511390-0">On Looking</a> and Gregoire Bouillier's funny, crazy wonderful book <a href="http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?inkey=62-0374185700-0">The Mystery Guest</a>. I thought a great deal about writing, about why I started writing and why I should continue, both here and elsewhere. I haven't come up with the answer yet, though I feel a slow but powerful shift beneath me, aiming me in a slightly different, more challenging direction.</li>
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</tbody></table>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-82964430105017627012010-07-21T15:37:00.000-07:002010-07-21T17:01:57.814-07:00RescueIn the summer, there are three things I need to accomplish to feel that all is as it should be:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeIlfoqrPI/AAAAAAAAB2A/LCvsq1R3HEM/s1600/TS7-21-10c.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 212px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeIlfoqrPI/AAAAAAAAB2A/LCvsq1R3HEM/s320/TS7-21-10c.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496512047957585138" border="0" /></a>1. Berry picking at Sauvie Island Farms. Despite getting the first bee sting I've had since I was 5, the day was gorgeous, the berries plentiful and I was surprisingly tickled with the new added feature of a wagon ride out to the fields and back. It was driven by this young lad with what has to be one of the sweeter summer jobs for a teenager–driving a tractor around and around while listening to your ipod.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeBYvEH0aI/AAAAAAAAB1w/ccKMtanp4OY/s1600/TS7-21-10.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeBYvEH0aI/AAAAAAAAB1w/ccKMtanp4OY/s320/TS7-21-10.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496504132179579298" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeBZKAVYHI/AAAAAAAAB14/x6jQQ055fOU/s1600/TS7-21-10b.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 245px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeBZKAVYHI/AAAAAAAAB14/x6jQQ055fOU/s320/TS7-21-10b.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496504139411447922" border="0" /></a>2. Half an hour in from the coast sits my favorite camping spot. Last year we got shut out and had to settle for a day trip to the swimming hole, but this year there was plenty of space. The water wasn't too cold, though the chilly breeze let us dip no deeper than our waists. Instead we watched salamanders crawl among the seaweed, watched hawks circle the sky. We admired the giant evergreens, and lush, mossy campsites kept in tidy order by an inmate with what has to be one of the sweeter prisoner work gigs - a shovel for ash, a pair of clippers to trim back the foliage creeping onto the paths and the tall, bright forest all around you.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeIl0wpBMI/AAAAAAAAB2I/BhuYSJEATC4/s1600/TS7-21-10d.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TEeIl0wpBMI/AAAAAAAAB2I/BhuYSJEATC4/s320/TS7-21-10d.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496512053628175554" border="0" /></a>3. Tin House runs a week-long workshop every July and every July I hop on my bike and savor what becomes a well-worn path out to Reed College to sit in on lectures and readings. This year, my favorite bit of advice came from Steve Almond's lecture about the particular torture that is the life of a writer. It is this: <span style="font-style: italic;">If you can find some more efficient form of rescue, I recommend you do so.</span>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-743264243888070142010-07-09T17:24:00.000-07:002010-07-09T23:17:26.738-07:00Hello summer<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TDe97Ai2Z0I/AAAAAAAAB1o/dkEOLYnNbtk/s1600/TS7-9-10.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TDe97Ai2Z0I/AAAAAAAAB1o/dkEOLYnNbtk/s320/TS7-9-10.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5492067092057712450" border="0" /></a>Finally, it's hot. Say what you will about leaping from 55 to 95 or how it makes you lethargic or how you have to rush from one air conditioned container to the next...I love it. I'm in love with it. I'm lovin' all up on it. After so many months of cool wetness, this all-encompassing, full bore blaze is like a long hot kiss.<br /><br />I love the long days and the way the heat builds across the hours. This is the brief time of year when direct sunlight actually flirts with my bedroom, licking the window sill and curtains just before it drifts behind the neighbor's house. The view is less than stellar–a wobbly red fence, the meeting point of two garage roofs and beyond the giant swaying trees–but for a few minutes, the curtain glows and billows like a jellyfish. The breeze stirs the heat without distilling it, like in a hot bath made hotter by the sway of a knee.<br /><br />Love it, I say. It won't be here long.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-24782056895603272102010-06-29T23:12:00.000-07:002010-06-29T23:51:50.616-07:00Kelly, Lime and ForestMud green. Moss green. Fresh-from-the-seed green. Pine, pond and sea-foam. Three hikes in one week: Angel's Rest, Tryon State Park and Falcon Cove. I feel like a forest creature, slicked in mud and swallowed in leaves. Eyes made of wet emeralds. Blood made of bark dust. The clouds float through me and I drink.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrg0ey0HgI/AAAAAAAAB1Q/pU1LXGiM71w/s1600/DSC_0008.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrg0ey0HgI/AAAAAAAAB1Q/pU1LXGiM71w/s320/DSC_0008.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488446288128384514" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrgyhhzUNI/AAAAAAAAB04/X5ZxsfBU5wc/s1600/DSC_0003.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 212px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrgyhhzUNI/AAAAAAAAB04/X5ZxsfBU5wc/s320/DSC_0003.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488446254502596818" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrg0w2XzTI/AAAAAAAAB1Y/DvDKvt6rnO0/s1600/DSC_0040.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrg0w2XzTI/AAAAAAAAB1Y/DvDKvt6rnO0/s320/DSC_0040.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488446292975144242" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrhBJb4AlI/AAAAAAAAB1g/mDBhafEduAs/s1600/DSC_0037.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrhBJb4AlI/AAAAAAAAB1g/mDBhafEduAs/s320/DSC_0037.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488446505733325394" border="0" /><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrgz27LoeI/AAAAAAAAB1I/paGvrC-7wkQ/s1600/DSC_0055.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 237px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrgz27LoeI/AAAAAAAAB1I/paGvrC-7wkQ/s320/DSC_0055.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488446277426061794" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrgzLgkSkI/AAAAAAAAB1A/Wz2T-Z6l7RE/s1600/DSC_0068.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 212px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TCrgzLgkSkI/AAAAAAAAB1A/Wz2T-Z6l7RE/s320/DSC_0068.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488446265771706946" border="0" /></a>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-42643123111035452932010-06-20T17:54:00.000-07:002010-06-20T18:01:53.406-07:00Good glowing fruit<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TB64Zi8UkyI/AAAAAAAAB0w/aBLbbcRL3As/s1600/DSC_0005.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 212px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TB64Zi8UkyI/AAAAAAAAB0w/aBLbbcRL3As/s320/DSC_0005.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5485024145199895330" border="0" /></a>I can't deny that the relentless wet of May and the cool, damp of June have left me less celebratory than I usually would be this time of year. But then I remembered the strawberries I planted for the first time this spring and suddenly the tiny harvest is beginning to pay off. It's 55 and misty but I just ate this luscious fruit grown in my backyard. Behold the perfect palate cleanser: Bitterness removed. Sweetness restored.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-26042882098086514762010-06-10T11:01:00.000-07:002010-06-10T19:05:10.568-07:00Poetry x 12: Belonging<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TBEopJ0VoFI/AAAAAAAAB0o/53gkR3KMTnk/s1600/cover.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 120px; height: 180px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TBEopJ0VoFI/AAAAAAAAB0o/53gkR3KMTnk/s320/cover.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5481206908961792082" border="0" /></a>I'm late on reporting on the <a href="http://namingconstellations.wordpress.com/2010/03/01/meta-blogging-poetry-x-12-information/">Poetry x 12</a> challenge for May. But late for what and for whom? I'm pretty convinced that the vast majority of the hits on this blog are from Japanese pornography spammers (now there's a term I couldn't have imagined using ten years ago.) Oh well. Whose to say Japanese pornographers don't like Iranian poetry.<br /><br />May's challenge was to read a poetry collection from another part of the world. This was a perfect opportunity to read my former classmate's translation of poetry written by Iranians in exile. <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio?isbn=9781556437120">Belonging</a> is a beautiful book that offers Niloufar Talebi's translations of three different generations of Iranians all of whom left their country because of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iranian_Revolution">1979 revolution.</a><br /><br />This collection was appealing, in part, because I'm drawn to literature that either evokes a strong sense of place or explores place as a theme. What does it mean to have a home you will never see again? One of the more well-known poets included in the collection, Nader Naderpour, writes in his poem "Conversation in the Dark": <span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />World of swarming crowds,<br />And of all that avails on the endless horizon,<br />If we have a destiny, it is our loneliness.<br /><br /></span>I love Mina Assadi's simple, evocative expression of longing in "Yearning for Saari 1" where she addresses the wet weeds of her homeland: <span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><br />tell the breeze<br /> that so lovingly passes through you,<br /> someone on this side<br /> of the world is also enamored<br /> of the scent of your bodies!<br /><br /></span>Loneliness is not the only subject here, but it is the one I was most drawn to. There is actually great diversity of style and subject in this sampling and I was continually impressed with Niloufar's translation abilities. Despite the fact that the original poems accompany each of the translations, it was easy to forget that these were not written in English. This is a great introduction to a world of voices of which we've heard far too little. For more info on contemporary Iranian literature and the other interesting work that Niloufar is doing, check out <a href="http://www.thetranslationproject.org/">The Translation Project.</a><br /><br />This month's challenge: The classic poetry collection you always meant to read but never have. Coincidentally, I purchased a copy of <span style="font-style: italic;">The Odyssey</span> a week or so ago and have dug in. This is not only in keeping with the Poetry x 12 challenge, but in keeping with my habit of reading large dense books during the summer. I swear, I don't do it on purpose, but clearly my subconscious is in rebellion against the breezy beach book. But more on that another time...<br /><br /><span style="text-decoration: underline;"></span><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio?isbn=9781556437120"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></a>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-78302841860887696722010-06-07T22:10:00.000-07:002010-06-07T22:26:34.667-07:00The green fuse drives the flower<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TA3RmsRX_MI/AAAAAAAAB0Y/z5ZVFLnePYY/s1600/June.3.10.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/TA3RmsRX_MI/AAAAAAAAB0Y/z5ZVFLnePYY/s320/June.3.10.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480266784229031106" border="0" /></a><br />More nothing. Just a bit of documentation. Garden as of the first week of June. Now all we need is a respite from the rain for a little while so I can sit out here and watch the crows watch me and watch the squash unfurl oh. . . so. . . slowly from the earth. Green strawberries. Baby, slug-nibbled lettuce. Ugly little Dahlia shoots struggling up into the light.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-38787869803313625602010-05-25T21:16:00.000-07:002010-05-26T10:53:32.944-07:00Excuses<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S_yhJxeu_FI/AAAAAAAAB0I/jA6KTp8Nuto/s1600/TS5-25-10.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S_yhJxeu_FI/AAAAAAAAB0I/jA6KTp8Nuto/s320/TS5-25-10.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5475428436248820818" border="0" /></a>I've had so little to say because:<br /><ul><li>I've been rubbing butts (and backs and achilles tendons)</li><li>The lengthy case of tendonitis I've been nursing has had me contemplating the end of my career and/or the beginning of my ability to predict the weather with my joints.<br /></li><li>The Internet is pretty and shiny.</li><li>The Megavolcano in Yosemite Park explodes approximately every 600,000 years. The last time it went off was 640,000 years ago.</li><li>For ages, we've contemplated the end of our oil supply and now we will suffocate in the stuff because they can't make it stop.<br /></li><li>I was given my very first car by some very generous friends and now I must confront all the reasons I never bought one (see above). The amount of space it takes up in my brain is appalling.</li><li>Writing is hard and researching agents is exhausting.<br /></li><li>Matt Debenham's <span style="font-style: italic;">The Book of Right and Wrong</span>, Lydia Davis' <span style="font-style: italic;">Varieties of Disturbance</span> and <span style="font-style: italic;">Belonging</span>, Nilofar Talebi's translations of Iranian poetry.<br /></li><li>Rain in the form of sweet spring, wild & tempestuous, sunshower, two-minute downpour and when will it ever fucking stop.</li><li>Weeds needed pulling, branches needed lopping and just look at the inky spill off the tongue of that iris.<br /></li></ul>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-57397452591482113222010-05-15T20:23:00.000-07:002010-05-15T20:39:09.362-07:00Spring break<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S-9lx5jGlbI/AAAAAAAAB0A/5NpxiznQsb8/s1600/DSC_0030.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S-9lx5jGlbI/AAAAAAAAB0A/5NpxiznQsb8/s320/DSC_0030.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5471703980214490546" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S-9lxdLI7GI/AAAAAAAABz4/0C_CBAipUI0/s1600/TS5-15-10b.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S-9lxdLI7GI/AAAAAAAABz4/0C_CBAipUI0/s320/TS5-15-10b.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5471703972597787746" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S-9lw0TLK9I/AAAAAAAABzw/rUpga0svOjI/s1600/DSC_0020.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S-9lw0TLK9I/AAAAAAAABzw/rUpga0svOjI/s320/DSC_0020.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5471703961625635794" border="0" /></a>I've been away. Out in the world. In shorts and t-shirts and sandals. In the sun. In the park. Not caring much about writing because I can walk in the woods with my beau in mid May then come home and eat pudding and watch Irish movies with the subtitles on. Just like my beau, this city knows how to soothe me and swoon me and sweep me off my feet.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-46013533091627662222010-05-03T08:53:00.000-07:002010-05-04T13:15:58.281-07:00Poetry x 12 where I delve into Shel<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S97y_E8J1QI/AAAAAAAABzo/3bZL3Xq4n4Q/s1600/TS5-2-10.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 146px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S97y_E8J1QI/AAAAAAAABzo/3bZL3Xq4n4Q/s320/TS5-2-10.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467074163146085634" border="0" /></a>April disintegrated in my hands. Already gone and I never chimed in on the <a href="http://namingconstellations.wordpress.com/2010/03/01/meta-blogging-poetry-x-12-information/">Poetry x 12 Challenge</a> for the month which was to read a favorite collection from childhood. For me, there was really only one shining star of verse in my youth and that was Shel Silverstein. I still have my copies of <span style="font-style: italic;">Where the Sidewalk Ends</span> and <span style="font-style: italic;">Light in the Attic</span>. I devoured these as a kid. Returning to them now, I was reminded of how dark and sad some of these poems are. I mean, look at the author photo. Good god. My mother must not have turned the book over before buying it. Either that, or she understood that this would appeal to her rather broody child.<br /><br />As an adult, what appealed to me most was the juxtaposition of the sing-song rhymes and the slightly sinister tone. For example, "Me-Stew" ends with this:<span> So bring out your stew bowls/You gobblers and snackers/ Farewell – and I hope you enjoy me with crackers! That "Farewell" kind of kills me. As does poor "Hector the Collector" who calls over "all the silly sightless people" to share his treasure box of bricks, vases, buckles, etc. and they call it junk. Heartbreaking, really. Brilliant really.<br /><br />Joseph Harker, the man managing the Poetry x 12 challenge has more to say about Shel over at <a href="http://namingconstellations.wordpress.com/2010/04/28/meta-blogging-poetry-x-12-april/">Naming Constellations.</a></span><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><br /></span><span>And next on the list for May is the challenge to read poetry from a foreign country. A perfect opportunity to read more of my fellow Bennington-ites efforts. I'll be reading Nilofar Talebi's translation of Iranian poetry, <a href="https://www.randomhouse.com/catalog/display.pperl?isbn=9781556437120"><span style="font-style: italic;">Belonging: New Poetry by Iranians Around the World</span></a></span><span style="font-style: italic;">.<br /></span>Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34540171.post-47329911427698244702010-04-22T19:27:00.000-07:002010-04-22T20:08:57.070-07:00A package (or four) in the mail<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S9EGHESsKpI/AAAAAAAABzg/yMER_ho5sTU/s1600/TS4-22-10.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/__c76MMMJvTo/S9EGHESsKpI/AAAAAAAABzg/yMER_ho5sTU/s320/TS4-22-10.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5463154541458107026" border="0" /></a>All four of these volumes came in the mail today: Matt Debenham's<span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0814251730/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_1?pf_rd_p=486539851&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=0307269663&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1F1VK74GMM8BFPD8PRHX">The Book of Right and Wrong</a>, Hayden Saunier's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Tips-Domestic-Travel-Hayden-Saunier/dp/1934703818/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1271990010&sr=8-1"><span style="font-style: italic;">Tips for Domestic Travel</span></a>, Damian Rogers' <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Paper-Radio-Poems-Misfit-Books/dp/1550228927/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1271990059&sr=1-1"><span style="font-style: italic;">Paper Radio</span></a> and the latest issue of <a href="http://www.unm.edu/%7Ebluemesa/">Blue Mesa Review</a>. The fact that I pulled this mighty stack of literature from my mailbox all at once made me nervous at first. It seemed likely that all these beautifully bound words were going to fill me with petty jealousy or at least tug me deeper into the shallow but stinky pit of crankiness I've been sitting in lately. Here was a trio of books written by people who were at the Bennington Writing Seminars at the same time I was and alongside them, a lit journal I received for losing a fiction contest.<br /><br />I sat on my porch, undoing the books from their wrappings and waited for the sick trickle of envy. Instead, I found my mood shifting. As I opened each book and read the first page, the first poems, I was genuinely moved. It wasn't because my friends had been published, but because the words were so good. No shit, I'm not just saying that. These are some talented people and how can I not be soothed and cheered by a bit of fine writing? A big thank you to them all.Twilight Spyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01912887335414763358noreply@blogger.com1